The India Experience

Monday, July 31, 2006

quick update

After I last posted, I took a taxi from the hotel and asked him to take me to the Gateway of India, instead he took me to a shop that pays him off to drag tourists there. The man there took me upstairs to his shop, unlocked the door and there I was ALONE in his shop with him, the shop was filled with very beautiful Kashmiri scarves. He tried several on me tying them on in the traditional way - I couldn't really find one I loved, but I liked them all - he said the price was 2500 rupees and me being bad at math on the spot wasn't sure how much that was, I tried to talk him down, but he wouldn't budge - he kept pressuring me to buy more scarves - I got mad at him for pressuring me, but bought the scarf anyway. I had him pay my cab fare when I went out and the taxi driver tried to get me into another shop, but I refused and walked to the Gateway myself. Later I figured that the price was $50 - yikes - but I've had it appraised since then by many Indians, including tailors, etc and they all said that it is a good price.

There's more to say after that point, but I need to go here soon...

I started the program this morning - went to the 120 year old Leprosy hospital for 2 very informative, interesting lectures - no longer a leprosy hospital, it's more of a home now for people who were ostracized for having leprosy a long time ago - it's beautiful - the only place in Mumbai that isn't overcrowded with gardens all around - and the stray dogs didn't look as sick there.

I'm going to night clinic tonight - it's at 7pm in a very very small clinic - it's a community clinic that is either free or virtually free. Should be interesting...

Planning a trip to Goa this weekend with the group.

I taught our hostel hosts how to play the card game "speed" last night and they loved it - we had a great time playing. They don't speak english and I don't speak hindi, but we managed to communicate well. I gave them a deck of Seattle playing cards and some dried apples - they were amazed and thrilled for the gifts.

I have to go, my clinic partner is patiently waiting for me now - I'll write more and post more pics later. A lot has happened since my last post...

Saturday, July 29, 2006
























Deep Relaxation

I'm about to leave the Oberoi Tower Hotel and see some of the sites. I'm storing my luggage here until this evening because my program coordinator said my room wouldn't be ready for me until the evening at the University dorm. So, I will kill some time until the evening, then move my stuff over there. Our orientation is tomorrow at 11:00 am, then we start clinic on Monday. I'll get a cellphone at that meeting, so I'll post my number then - I get free incoming calls, so call me all you want, but you should use a calling card if you do because your home or cell phone company will charge A LOT of money to call India.

Thank you for all of your emails - I was so happy to get them today! I think this next 4 weeks will be a little lonely, so I appreciate the contact. Also, feel free to leave comments on here. Thanks for your comment, Woody!

Lets see - I'll go through what I've done so far in Mumbai - I feel like such a loser writing about this because I haven't really left the hotel much, but I figured I will be in Mumbai for 4 weeks, so I'll have plenty of sight-seeing time. Also, I will have a roommate and be staying at a place with no amenities, so I enjoyed that as much as possible.

When I got to my room that first morning/night, I unpacked my stuff, washed the clothes I had been wearing for over 48 hours which smelled like sweat and smoke (people do lots of smoking everywhere in Bahrain) in the sink, took a shower, then a bath, brushed my teeth with soap and hand sanitizer since I forgot toothpaste and I was too embarrassed about crying to call the front desk, took pictures of the room and the view, watched TV. Then, I considered going to sleep, but by then I was sooo hungry. I read through the room service menu and got even hungrier, so I ordered the Norwegian Salmon with a poached egg and asparagus over croute and a plain lassi - YUM! I put on my new dress over pants and started my day without sleeping.

I went for a walk on Marine Drive/Nariman Point across the street from the hotel, which is a road bordering the sea. I went to an ATM first and got cash, so I had 5000 rupees in my bag and I had my camera, so I could take pictures. I went around taking photos for a bit, then this little girl came up to me begging for money - I could give her any because all I had was the wad of cash and I was not about to pull out the whole wad there on the street for all to see. After the little girl came up, her mother joined her and they sandwiched me in between them tightly, flanking my sides. I was walking around in tight circles and weaving around trying to shake them off, but they wouldn't let up. Finally, I guess they realized I wasn't going to give them anything and they left.

The weather is very harsh right now. Heavy grey clouds, rain, major wind - I was almost blown away on that walk! Today I have my hair all pinned down, so it won't blow around so much.

Then, I got a one-hour massage in the hotel spa from a woman from Thailand who was trained in Thailand which I guess is known for good massage. It was great! After the massage, I enjoyed the steam room for awhile.

I showered and put some fancy clothes on and had a romantic candle-lit dinner for one at the hotel restaurant. I was planning on getting sushi because, well, I love sushi, but also I was trying to avoid spicy curry because of my ulcer. It turned out they didn't start serving sushi until later, so I had an amazingly delicious curry meal - morel mushrooms (which were imported from Kashmir according to the waiter) stuffed with farmer's cheese in a curry served with mixed veggies, yoghurt, daal, rice, papadam (sp?), and garlic nan. It was heavenly. The spices used in the curry were new to me and tasted so good. And the meal was only $20 and the giant bottle of Pelligrino was a third of that.

I went to sleep around 8:30 or 9:00 pm and woke up wide awake at midnight, but then went back to sleep soundly until 7:00am.

I got up and headed to the pool for a swim - it was comical because it was so windy, even though it was in a protected courtyard, that the pool water was like a raging river. I jumped in for a minute, but the water smacking me in the face was annoying, so I opted for the gym instead. I did 35 minutes on a cross-trainer and did my stretches, went in the steam room, then had the left-overs from last night for breakfast, drank tea and enjoyed the view.

Took a bubble bath, then a shower, then packed everything up and here I am in the business center writing this. I'm about to go experience more of Mumbai for the first time, so it should be interesting. I'm wearing one of those shoulder money belt things under my blouse, but I have my shoulder bag with my (actually, Josh's) camera in it, so I hope no one tries to rob me or anything. From what I heard, there are a lot of beggars in Colaba since it's the touristy area. I plan to go to Colaba, then to Fort - so it should be interesting and fun.

Oh, by the way, the service is excellent in this hotel - they felt so bad about me crying that they surprised me with this lovely truffle/chocolate platter in my room last night and a card apologizing. Everytime I see someone from the front desk, they ask if I'm happy with the room. I'm going to miss this place...

Oh yeah, I saw on the news this morning that some men shot about 5 people at a Jewish Center in Seattle - so terrible. Seattle has had more than it's share of violence this year.

Friday, July 28, 2006

If it were possible for something to go wrong, it did

ok, so I'm finally here in Mumbai (most people seem to still prefer calling it Bombay) - My flights did not end up being as direct as they were supposed to be...

It all started in Seattle around noon on July 25th - Janie was sweet enough to drop me at the airport, I boarded my flight 40 min before take-off time, then proceeded to sit there on the plane for a total of 4 hours because the airline (NW) was having computer problems - the entire US system was down, so they were going through baggage maually to make sure someone was present on the plane for every piece of luggage. This, I presume, is so someone doesn't check a bomb onto the plane who isn't suicidal.

My layover in Amsterdam was 3 hours long, so I missed that connection which would have brought me straight to Mumbai and I would have arrived at 10:30pm on the 26th. I waited in an enormous line, then got a new booking for the next flight which had a transfer in Bahrain - and if you're like me, you'll say, "Where is Bahrain?"

So I get to Bahrain 20 minutes before my flight was scheduled to leave and the transfer desk worker said the flight had already left. I don't know about this since I've never heard of planes leaving early before - my only guess is that boarding was finished.

So now I'm stranded in the Bahrain airport with 5 other people in the same predicament. We all had to negotiate and wait there for about 3 hours. Two of them took flights to other parts of India instead that left later that night - apparently they were planning on heading to those areas via Mumbai anyway, so they opted to just skip Mumbai.

So (I like to begin every paragraph with "So") that left 4 of us - one Indian gentleman who is a computer tech for clinical trials in Mumbai, one American man business school program director from Michigan, and an English bloke who works for an electronic firm in Tampa. We banded together - we were all so glad not to be alone in this terrible situation. None of us had any or our luggage besides our carry-ons. We were all tired and astonished at having missed 2 out of 2 connections.

So (ha ha) we ended up staying at the Delmon Hotel in downtown Bahrain. We got to the hotel at 12:30am and we all agreed we should go to the hotel bar for a beer to unwind. The hotel had several bars - very strange - there was a hallway with doors leading to various clubs and all of them had pictures of women outside who apparently worked inside - dancing? or more? I'm not really sure. Luckily, we found the "Australian" pub in Bahrain that had a Filippino cover band. We had a lot of fun getting to know each other, singing to the songs the band covered (Guns'n'Roses, Violent Femmes, Prince, AC/DC, etc.), watching the US military guys act out, and drinking beer. There weren't any Arabs in the bar, not even working there - everyone was Asian or American or European. We had wondered if Bahrain was going to be "dry" like Saudi, but lucky for us it wasn't - although it appears most Bahrain nationals are.

After the bar, I mean, So, after the bar, we went out for some amazing food at a restaurant nearby - I had my first real hommos (that's how they spell it), dolmas, salad, fries, etc. The food was delicious. And while we ate, the news coverage of the Isreal/Lebanon conflict played on the TV - but it was less like news and more like an MTV music video - really glamorizing the Lebanese military. It played more like pro-arab propaganda than unbiased news. But then again, our news is probably pro-Isreal propaganda, but it's just more sly, rather than the overt display of support we witnessed. Then it was off to sleep.

The Englishman caught a morning flight because he was a business class passenger and they had seats on business class on Gulf Air, which is the nicest airline around here. They said the 3 of us could purchase upgrades for $600 US and we all declined and decided to sight-see instead and then catch the 5:15pm flight on Air India.

After about 5 hours of sleep on our springy twin beds, we did some shopping, eating and walking around Bahrain, then went to the airport about 4 hours early to make sure everything was sorted out. We had to wait over an hour for Air India agents to arrive, and when they did, they said we were NOT booked on the flight. He said our agent had booked us on the KLM system, and that system is not connected with the Air India system...sheesh. He told us to wait until 3:30 to see if anyone dropped the flight. Things were looking bleak. No matter how much we tried to negotiate, the Air India agent claimed the flight was completely booked.

Then the Indian man in our little group, Shamjith, performed a miracle. He got on the phone with a travel agent from his company in India and that agent simply booked us all onto the flight. We went up to the counter with our confirmation codes and the counter agents were dumfounded - they gave us our boarded passes and off we went! On the way to Mumbai at last. This time with a stoppver, but not a transfer - I couldn't face another transfer...

The Air India plane was unbelievably hot and stuffy, old and dirty, crowded...The only highlight was the beautiful saris worn by the beautiful flight attendents. The worst part was the toilets - they were filthy - like worse than a really filthy porta-potty. I've read before that only the lowest caste can clean toilets, so maybe they need to hire someone from that caste because those things are not getting cleaned - yuck.

We stopped in Qatar for an hour, let people off and new people on...then I reached Mumbai around 1:30 am. After I cleared immigration, I set out on a serious mission to recover my luggage - I had 2 suitcases full of every imaginable thing I'll need while I'm here for 6 weeks - I wasn't going to leave the airport without them.

2 things I forgot to mention up to this point: 1) my ulcers are back with a vengeance and I've spent all of this time in dire pain with a burning gut because my Zantac is in the checked luggage (that was so stupid of me!); 2) I am the only white woman I've seen since I arrived in Bahrain, When I walked on the plane out of Bahrain, all of the people stared at me - I felt more alien-like than I've ever felt in any of my travels.

So it's almost 2:00 am in the Mumbai airport now and this is the absolutely worst airport I've ever seen or even imagined in my life. I was sent outside to go up a lift to the 2nd floor to find the KLM office - walking down the street was a little sketchy - I held my shoulder bag closely. Then I went into the building with the airline offices, but it seemed more like a squat - the whole airport reeked of pee, but this building must've been made out of pee because the stench was unbearable, there were strange men here and there, sleeping, smoking, hanging out. Strange smells - incense/tobacco sort of smell(?).

So I wound up the sketchy stairwell ALONE and arrived at a doorway with about 7 men in uniforms. At this point, I'm paranoid and imagining them doing the worst with me. 3 of them lead me down this long hallway - I haven't seen an airline office yet and I've been walking in this labyrinth for awhile - it's more like an abandoned building - it's a scene straight out of the game "Silent Hill" - finally I get to a real airline office with real KLM agents and no one has abducted me! YES! I'm alive! And the agent had vouchers for my bags! She took me to the bag storage room place where I had to wait around for a bunch of Indian men to act sufficiently beaurocratic, then she walked me through customs, I got some rupees and hired a pre-paid taxi to the Hilton.

The taxi was also sketchy. I was ALONE with about 6 men milling about. I didn't know which one was my driver or if they were even legitimate, although the number on the car matched the voucher I bought. One of the men starts driving, then as we exit the airport, a police officer checks my voucher - that's comforting - a police officer knows where I am, then seconds later, out of nowhere, the driver throws open his door and bolts out of the car before I can ask where he's going, then another man comes running up from behind and jumps in the car to start driving - here's where I panic, I jump out of the car because I think this man is trying to steal the car with me in it. The old driver sees me do that and comes back over to clear things up - he said this other guy would be my driver if that is alright...strange...

So the drive took a long time, I get to the Hilton around 3:30am - I go to check in and -wouldn't you know it - they don't have my booking in the system! Of course! Whatever could go wrong did! At this point I had been in transit for over 48 hours, I was tired, had raging heart burn, a headache, and a feeling of utter hopelessness and frustration. They told me to sit down and wait while they tried to figure it out - as I went to sit down, I saw a Scandanavian pilot who was also sitting and waiting for his room booking to get worked out - he said he hadn't slept in 20 hours - to me that sounded like petty whining at that point and my heart completely sunk and I felt terribly sorry for myself and the tears started to roll uncontrollably down my face. I cried there in the waiting room for about an hour while they figured something out. Luckily it was the middle of the night, so not that many people saw me. I was just so tired of waiting for bookings to get worked out - it was the straw that broke the camel's back.

Around 5:00 am, the Hilton rep informed me that they had rebooked me in the one of the nicest/priciest hotels in Mumbai right next door in a Ocean View room! Yay! My room is so nice - I love it - I don't want to leave. I could have never afforded that room on my own, so it's pretty cool that it all worked out this way.

My fingers are getting tired here - ha ha - I still haven't slept - I'm trying to stay up until night time to get onto India time - which is 12.5 hours later than Seattle time.

I have more to say about Bahrain, but I'll have to write more on that later.

I've taken some pictures, so I'll try to upload them from here.

peace and love and namaste to all of you - thanks for reading this - my next posts will hopefully be more uplifting! :)

Tuesday, July 25, 2006

Leaving Tomorrow

Hello all,

I'm leaving tomorrow, so I decided to start a blog dedicated to my experiences in India...

I will be posting from internet cafes in India whenever I get the chance.

Hope you enjoy it!
Cheers,
Christine